Wisdom from my children
We were driving in the car and my youngest son, who is 8, asked me how much our house payment was. I told him and he just stared at me. Then my daughter, 13years old, asked me how many years it would take to pay off our house. I told her 30. I then told her that we would probably pay 2 - 3 times more for our house then the original purchase price.
My son’s response was, “I am just going to be a hobo when I grow up!
We all laughed, but would that be so bad! If you intentionally decided that you no longer needed physical things, think how simple your life would become. I’m not sure about you, but I think the average American ends up spending way too much energy paying for things that they probably didn’t really need.
I love my house and I am very happy in my house. My house is truly a gift! I continue to make my mortgage payments with the intention of paying it off in full. However, we have a lot of things in our house that are just sitting there. Some of them, like our skis, we truly use and enjoy. There are other things that we seldom use. We take a lot of items to the good will store, simply because we no longer use them.
Someone spent their time and energy to create those things that we have in our house. We paid for it and they received compensation for it, which I think is awesome! But what happens when a credit card enters the scene? That person put their time into creating something, we buy it using a credit card. The exchange is most likely fair the day you purchase it, but if you do not pay your credit card in full every month the exchange becomes uneven. You end up paying for something way more than what it is worth.
What if you did not have a credit card? You may not have even purchased that thing in the first place. If the person making it does not receive compensation they will go on and make something that is needed in the market place. If the credit card is not used, guess what! There is no need for credit card companies! Those people employed by the credit card companies will go on and do something else. The owners of the credit card company will come up with other companies. The crazy transfer of wealth from the consumer to the banking system will stop.
The more pure the transaction, the closer from buyer to seller it is, the more even and fair the transfer of energy. This type of concept is always stirring in the back of my mind. It is where I came up with the term NeighborWealth. The concept is that when you purchase something, the money represents an energy exchange. When the transaction is even and fair, then the transaction remains in balance. When too many parties, for example credit card companies, enter into the transaction the energy no longer remains balanced. This is a major contributing factor to our economic situation right now!
Consider the mortgage crisis. Banks were willing to come up with these crazy loans to get people into house. People simply stated how much money they made without providing proof. Low interest rates that adjusted after a certain period of time and interest only loans made purchasing a house very easy. Even if you could not afford the house, the bank would still figure out how to get you into the house. This lead to a high demand on houses causing the price to spiral up. As long as the bank financed buyers the cycle continued. It continued until people were not able to make their house payment and the real estate market ran out of buyers.
The banks decided to foreclose instead of working with the home owners flooding the market with more house and dragging our economy to a halt. The transfer of energy from the home owner to the home buyer became totally unbalanced in this cycle.
If you lent someone down the street money to purchase a house, and you knew that the guy down the street was going to lose his house if you did not lower his interest rate, would you lower the rate? Most people would. A big organization worried stock prices would not! Adjust the interest rate simply to help out another person is an example of NeighborWealth.
Here is something to think about. The only reason the mortgage industry is lower interest rates for home owners in trouble is because the government is requiring it. The government is forcing them to be ethical. These are the institutions driving our economy!
We are at a key decision point in our economic history. We can return to an economy that is driven by borrowing resulting in the uneven transfer of energy, or YOU the consumer can decide not to participate in this crazy system. Stop using credit except for very large purchases. Focus on paying that loan off as quickly as possible. Establish a savings account for emergencies instead of relying on a credit card. It is up to us what the economy of the future will look like not our government!
Give your neighbor the benefit of the doubt. There are some great opportunities emerging in the market place that foster the concept of money flowing from one person to the next. Look for these. Reach out to your neighbor. Look at what they have to offer and if it makes sense to have in your life purchase it. Purchase from a farmers market instead of the grocery store. Purchase something from a home based business instead of a store.
The way to recover our economy is to keep money flowing form one entity to the next. I believe that this money should be flowing from person to person and not through big institutions. The big institutions create systems resulting in the uneven transfer of wealth. Be open and watch for opportunities to help that local business out.
Sorry Star Bucks. I love your coffee, but I had a cup at the local coffee shop the other day that was just as good. I learned the shop owners name. She actually was a school teacher in the same school that my son currently attends! This made the coffee even more enjoyable!